It was 9pm last Friday night. At the entrance of the spacious bar 'El Carrero' of Barcelona a crowd began to form with expectant party goers. Nothing unusual such a scene on a Friday night, had it not been because it was the first 'Aspanit Party', a special soiree for people with intellectual impairment or disability. It's organised with the objective of potentiating social relations and that of forming couples. The party also helps to release them from infantile treatment by other people around them in their daily life.
It's pioneer of the kind, attended by some 5o people, all excited and expectant. Most of them had never been out at night on their own before. So there were a few parents who were at first concerned about their children's 1st night out on their own. At 10pm the lights dimmed, the dance floor filled up and bodies moving with the rhythm of Waka Waka and Macarena, with overflowing laughter and energy, some with enviable perfect rhythm and style.
Not yet half way on, all the parents have left, quite confident that the party was doing the youngsters a lot of good; happy that their sons and daughters were happy, being well looked after and really enjoying themselves. Gema Deulofeu, one of the psychologists of the entity of organizers smiled and said succinctly: 'They need this!' The success of the party is more than evident.
The initiative not just gives these people entertainment, but an adult social activity, quite different from day time classroom learning or doing handiwork or crafts. They also need to be respected as adults, not being talked down to always, by the so called 'normal' people, who automatically speak to them as if they were toddlers. They also have the chance to learn to interact with different people, and with luck, find a boyfriend/girlfriend to chat to and spend time with.
This party would be repeated on the last Friday of every month. For 5€, they have the whole evening of fun, catering and the consumption of a refreshment without alcohol. There would be Karaoke next time, and other programmes added from time to time.
The highlight of the evening: A couple on the dancing floor were so high-spirited they requested the DJ to play a Wedding March!