Sunday, 22 April 2012

22nd April 2012 I'm Goona Be A Bear ...

April 22B
In this life I'm a woman. In my next life, I'd like to come back as a bear. When you're a bear, you get to hibernate. You do nothing but sleep for six months. I could deal with that.

Before you hibernate, you're supposed to eat yourself stupid. I could deal with that too.

When you're a girl bear, you give birth to your babies (who are the size of walnuts) while you are sleeping and wake to partially grown, cute, cuddly cubs. I could definitely deal with that.

If you're a mama bear, everyone knows you mean business. You swat anyone who bothers your cubs. If your cubs get out of line, you swat them too. I could deal with that.

If you're a bear, your mate EXPECTS you to wake up growling. He EXPECTS that you will have hairy legs and excess body fat.

Yup, I'm gonna be a bear!
 
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22nd April 2012 Mirror, Mirror ... (My Fiction Story)

April 22A


I showered sprightly (doesn't make sense not to do so in high-spirit), dried my hair vigorously, achieving spectacular waves and volume. I put on make-up, a crisp white blouse with frilly cuffs, black pencil skirt to emphasise my curves, a black leather jacket, and went out onto the street listening to Billie Jean in the ear-phone. I walked to the rhythm of Michael Jackson, very sure of myself. I am content and feel like Farrah Fawcett in Charlie's Angel, with my long blonde hair blown in the wind and feet firm on the ground. Yeah, I am having a good day and I feel attractive, sexy and desired.

I got to my destination and stop briefly in front of the hallway mirror, to reassure myself (that should have told me I wasn't as sure about my attractiveness as I thought) and I had the shock of my life. Everything had changed! I didn't look like Charlie's Angel at all! More like a tired housewife with unkempt hair that was crimped and choppy, dry skin and visible wrinkles at the outer corner of my eyes. What had happened in the brief time between my house and my office? Do I always look like this? When did I cease to be Farrah Fawcett? This just can't be true. Why is it that it has to be me that make a mistake? Couldn't it be the mirror? Faulty?

That's it, mirrors can be wrong, when they are not correctly put together. They would distort your image, like the ones in the amusement parks. People too. Some always make you feel beautiful and others make you feel an ugly duckling or even invisible. I know I am beautiful because my lover always looks at me with adoration and treats me like the princess of his dreams. I am sure I am beautiful like all the other women are when they are loved, whatever their age and however they look. I am simply beautiful because my man makes me feel so; and I believe and trust him with all my heart. He doesn't love Farrah Fawcett; he loves me.

I don't need the mirror to tell me how I look. It can't reflect the love and beauty in my heart.

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22nd April 2012 Anniversary Everyday

April 22


A couple of friends were recently celebrating their 40th wedding anniversary. The husband, during the toasting at the dinner table, said that to them, the celebration of their wedding is an everyday event, not just on that same day each year. What a wonderful toast!

Everyday is anniversary of some wonderful things that should be celebrated, and often are, by those to whom that day means something special. That same day my blessed friends celebrated their happy marriage for 40 years, is also the anniversary of the unforgettable film 'Cabaret', the most enjoyable, dark, sexy musical, entertaining and divinely decadent. To me it's definitely Liza Minnelli's best cinematic work, but I think it's Joel Grey's performance the most outstanding, impressive and unforgettable.
On the 9th of April, another great film of even bigger fame and success, with very serious true life content was the 50th anniversary of the film 'To kill a mocking bird', most elaborately celebrated in the United States. Not just the film, but the book too by Harper Lee who, in 2007 was consecrated by the then American president George Bush with the medal of Liberty. The film won Gregory Peck his only Oscar in his distinguished film career, Just by passing, his roll was first offered to Rock Hudson then Spencer Tracy, but neither wished or could accept it, probably for the implication of the then very controversial theme of racism.

Even most recently, on the 14th this month, was the centenary of the sinking of the Titanic, the several versions & remakes, TV programmes, documentaries, stage plays, books, photo exhibitions, interviews of survivors, articles of critics, published opinions of the famous and the general public, and a dozen more etceteras.
Nearly everyday I can think of something I did on the same day some other year,or a couple of things I didn't do but wish I had. Two anniversary dates I will never ever forget, the death of my mother and the fatal accident of the man whose proposal I happily accepted on that very same fateful day when he died.


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